I want to ask you a question...

What did you think about today? What did you think about? There are thousands of thoughts that go through our minds on a daily basis, and I'm wondering...I'm willing to bet that 95% of your thoughts were not about what you wanted...whatever they were, they weren't getting you what you wanted. They were about that person who made to feel bad, or that present frustration you have. Or just about your present circumstances, and how you are unsatisfied with them. You know, successful people think about what they want, and how to get it. What they want, and how to get it, most of the time. You want to get in the habit of thinking about what you want. But right now, you are not really capable of thinking about what you want. Let me explain. When I talk about what you want, I'm talking about what you want. What you want ideally. I'm not talking about what you know you can get, or what you think you can get. I'm talking about what you want. And you think about what you want, but then your subconscious prevents you from thinking about it further...unless you can develop the will, which is one of the six mental faculties, by the way, to hold that image on the screen of your mind. When you do, you will impress it upon the subconscious, and then your subconscious will start to accept it. The subconscious doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy. So, with this knowledge, you can now think big...dream big. Once you start to think about what you want, and build that fantasy in your mind, your subconscious will start to believe you already have it...you already are that person...you deserve what you are fantasizing about. You will feel so comfortable doing the actions that right now you know you should do in order to achieve what you want. You will attract what you want soooo much more easily. I'm Dan Cilley, and if you like this video, subscribe to this channel, and go to my website, at dancilley.com, because I'm going to be coming out with a free ebook that will teach you everything you need to know about the subconscious mind, and how to use its immense power to get everything you want.

What it's like...

Do you know what it's like to be motivated? To be passionate? To be so excited to do something, that you will do it an sacrifice anything? Well, I've got an example, let me explain. Napoleon Hill, in his book, "Think and Grow Rich," explained it very well...he said, "What a different story people would have to tell, if they would only adopt a definite purpose, and stand by that purpose, until it had time to become an all-consuming obsession." Now here's a book you should read...Booker T. Washington, "Up From Slavery." Booker T. Washington had a belief, that education would make him free. So he left the plantation and traveled by foot, and by begging for rides, and slept outside at night, underneath sidewalks, etc...he was on fire for this. It was his dream, his purpose. It was inevitable that he would succeed, because he was so obsessed. He got a job as a janitor at the college, when he finally was admitted, and he said, "If someone sees this floor, they're gonna know that Booker T. Washington washed this floor." Now, what was it about Mr. Washington? He was programmed subconsciously. The phrase "all-consuming" means that--he was so involved with this dream, it consumed all his time. It was all he thought about. It took time for him to visualize this dream...until it had time to become all-consuming. When you program your subconscious, you will develop stronger and stronger, and more vivid visualizations. Your whole body will believe you are actually there already...you will feel compelled to do the things that you previously resisted doing, because you will feel like the person in the dream is the person you are right now.

Paradigms

Have you ever wondered how rich people are rich? How olympians become olympians? How presidents become presidents...we'll, I have the answer. It's paradigms. A paradigm is a multitude of habits. A habit is a pattern of behavior that is executed almost without conscious thought involved. Successful people have paradigms that cause them to succeed. They aren't using sheer willpower. Their motivation comes from their subconscious mind. If you aren't rich or famous right now then I want to tell you that you're very lucky to be watching this video. Because did you know...you can change your paradigms. You can change the habits that are causing your results. And you want to have paradigms that cause the results you want. All you have to do, is ask yourself, "Am I getting the results I want?" If the answer is "no," then I am advising you to study how to change your paradigms. Because when you have the paradigms you want, you'll manifest what you want in your life without much conscious effort. You'll feel comfortable. It won't feel like a struggle. It will be easier than you think. Leave your questions or comments below. And if you want to really change your life, if you are willing to do whatever it takes, then go to my website at dancilley.com.

"Automate" happiness

Believe that there is a way to change how you habitually react to the outside world. For example, some people, when criticized by others, will feel sad and depressed and guilty; but others will respond with anger and denial; and others, laughter, and will make fun of the situation. You want to be able to love yourself unconditionally, and have others' criticisms "bounce off" you. You will be able to be happy, regardless of being accepted or rejected; your happiness won't depend on others' approval of you. You will simply be you, and that's it. You won't feel bad if others reject you, because you will know who you are, and know what you want, and feel secure, no matter what.

Develop habits that cause happiness...find out what causes happiness, and repeat those behaviors; and stop doing what causes pain and unhappiness. You will find that you are happy, and may not immediately be able to explain what it is you're doing that is causing you to be happy after awhile, because you will have automated the behaviors that are causing you to be happy. And when you automate a behavior, that means you are doing it without thinking about it; the process of doing it is subconscious. You may find out that you are doing things without even thinking, that once used to be very difficult and may have caused you much frustration. For example, driving a car. When you first started driving, if the car had a manual transmission, you probably stalled the engine many times. But now you don't even think about how firmly you press the gas, brake, and clutch pedals. And this is what I'm saying you need to do in other areas of your life. Have you ever thought about "automating" the way you make money? How about your health?

Develop habits that lead to success

What you need to do is develop new habits. "Automate" your behavior so that you move in the direction of happiness and success, without consciously thinking about it. Like walking, running, writing, reading, riding a bike, driving...when we do these things, we don't think about how we do them; we do them and our conscious mind thinks about other things. Our subconscious mind controls how firmly we press the gas pedal, how much force we apply with our hands to the steering wheel, how we turn our head to the left and right to look for traffic, etc. Making money should be the same...there should be a way to automate the behaviors that one does that lead to the accumulation of money. Same thing with maintaining optimal health, finding your ideal relationship, and accomplishing pretty much any goal.

EFT

I've been watching videos about EFT (emotional freedom technique). This technique is supposed to remove negative emotions that we are holding on to, which, once removed, the person will be happy and able to focus on his or her goals and take action toward their achievement with full speed. It "reprograms" the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is like a tape player. And it is a million times more powerful than the conscious mind, and it controls 95 to 99 percent of our actions. The "tape" runs, and influences our behavior. For example, you may think you want to get good grades in school, and think that you're a straight-A student, but if your subconscious is programmed for you to be a C student, then you will sabotage your efforts and slack off and procrastinate and get C's, even though you are telling yourself you are going to get straight A's this semester. There is a way to reprogram the subconscious so that it makes the person get straight A's. And I'm learning how to do that. You're supposed to be able to hypnotize yourself into a "theta" state of consciousness. From when we are born, until we are about six years old, we are in the theta state of consciousness. We are "downloading" programs into our subconscious mind. We adopt other people's habits, expressions, etc. We learn very rapidly, and our reality is mixed with fantasy. But when we get older, we use more of our conscious mind. We stay pretty much the same from age six onward, unless we figure out how to reprogram our subconscious.

What you focus on, you attract

"What you focus on, you attract; you literally magnetize yourself to it." -Bob Proctor

What you think about, you bring about. Keep your mind focused on what you want. It sounds simple and obvious, but it is actually really difficult to do. Monitor your thoughts for ten minutes, and start to study what you are actually thinking about. I bet 90% of your thoughts will be negative; you'll think about why you can't do something, why he or she won't let you do something, why you shouldn't do something, why it wouldn't be practical to do something, etc. What you need to do is start thinking outside the box. You need to train you mind to think differently. You want thoughts to arise that are favorable to you, and that move you toward the accomplishment of your goals, rather than stop you. You want 100% of your thoughts to be in accord with your beliefs and ideals. When that is the case, "the entire universe will come to your aid," meaning, you will manifest what you want as fast as possible. Yourself won't stop you anymore. And yourself was the only thing that was stopping you before, because you can't control other people. You can influence the way they react toward you, but that is by changing yourself. You can only control yourself, and when you change your behavior to what is pleasant to others, they will respond favorably to you, and get you what you want.